Here they are in the Manhattan Central Park or in Kensington Gardens in London together listening to the orchestra. Or rather, he is listening, and she is making sketches in pastel. Doesn’t it sound so romantic, look so beautiful? Everything would be wonderful, if not for one trifle: there is no orchestra. The concert he is listening to sounds in his head. Therefore, when he begins to wave his hands in the rhythm of the drums, shake his head back and forth to the beat of the violins, beat the rhythm with his feet and quietly hum the motive, he will look a little strange.
To be honest to the end, she thinks he’s a crazy idiot. But since she is Capricorn and she has such graceful manners, she will blush a little, concentrate more on drawing and pretend that she has not noticed anything. She will flare up if he asks her to sing along or asks how she likes the drummer. Capricorn is not so easy to make fire. Something really unthinkable is required.
And the Aquarius man just might be like that. His strangeness may seem limitless, especially if you look at her with the calm eyes of a Capricorn girl. I think some readers will remember: in my first book I wrote that this is the only girl who can look at an ugly frog and know that this is actually an enchanted prince. Therefore, I must admit that if she is capable of such Love and faith, she can also decide that this capricious nature can be somehow saved and turned into a creature more similar to the type of husband and father that she considers ideal. Unless, of course, it turns out that it is worth it. Assuming that he has many other real virtues, she can pretend to hear a drummer and even sing along to him. But she will equally seek the opportunity to change it and gently show that she understands him, but more importantly, what other people think about all this. That is, you must always behave in such a way that you are respected.
She’s not right. Terribly wrong. This person does not care a bit whether they respect him or not. He has nothing against it, but he does not care. And from time to time it will be a stumbling block between them. The Aquarius man is highly individualistic, he may have outstanding ideas and opinions. And the Capricorn girl may be the same. The difference is that she keeps her ideas to herself, avoiding the mocking and rude judgments of outsiders, and he is never afraid to show his eccentricity. Since both have sensitive areas, they can understand each other.
Her world, unlike his world, is not made up. It is practical, illuminated by art (many Capricorns have a sense of beauty), inhabited by puppies, full of dreams of warm kitchens and families who sing Christmas songs together. Capricorn’s desires never go beyond what can be deserved. The world of Aquarius seems imagined, unreal to her, the impossible can happen there (and it usually happens), it is inhabited by creatures of any size and shape.
She will need to love his friends. This is a must for a woman who loves Aquarius. He is surprisingly devoted to his friends, but you must also remember that he can even call the doorman, whom he saw only once, his friend. Aquarius has a very vague understanding of friendship. Sometimes they are so scattered that they can imagine their wife like this: “My good friend, Eloise.”
As Capricorn girls become quiet, modest wives who are not particularly annoying, curious or demanding, it is easy to understand why she is so attracted to the Aquarius man. But she will not become so quiet, modest and undemanding that he can even forget about her existence. It is known that Aquarius is able to forget a lot, and that they are married, and therefore he should remind about this from time to time. No, he is not an unfaithful husband at all, he is simply surprised that he made a promise for life.
This man, I tell you, has a fad about promises. He hates them. This is a strange product of the directness inherent in Uranus. He thinks it’s stupid and ridiculous to say something when you’re not sure that you will think the same a week, month or year later. No one can be sure that he will not change, especially Aquarius, so why lie to someone? Most people born under this sign can’t stand it when they are accused of failing a friend or breaking their oath, so they will do everything they can to keep their promises.
This does not mean that there are few Aquarius who are faithful to their oath and stay with one woman all their lives. A lot of them. Some of them are really very fond of, but even those who are not too in love are reluctant to go for a divorce. The wife of Aquarius is rarely threatened by rivals. However, Aquarius is keenly interested in women, and he has a good reason for this. They make up half of humanity, and Aquarius are very interested in the problems of humanity as a whole. At first, he may not even notice that women are creatures of the opposite sex. This in no way speaks of his own sexlessness. It’s just not the main thing for him. Nevertheless, if a woman makes even the slightest effort, in most cases she will be rewarded with a devoted husband or a charming lover.
This is rather strange (but probably not), but the Aquarius man often causes attacks of jealousy in his girlfriend, even if it is a cold, unemotional Capricorn girl. Since a stranger can attract Aquarius at a glance, he can treat a stranger as a close friend. If the stranger is a woman, then his Capricorn wife may not understand that this does not mean anything.
The physical side of their relationship can be changing and unpredictable. Everything related to Aquarius is changing and unpredictable. His attitude toward sex can range from intense curiosity to impartial acceptance. Her attitude can range from the feeling that marital duty is indeed a duty, to the deep enjoyment of intimacy without any false modesty or pretense. None of them are likely to underestimate or overestimate sex. Both accept him as he is and are able to engage in it without excessive passion or emotional outbursts, although some Aquarius bring to the physical unity a shade of dream-like unreality. And some Capricorn women blush every time even when they think about their sexuality. In the field of sex, he can come up with something that she finds fascinating,
If one of them, the Moon is in a harmonious aspect with the Sun of another, then their physical union will be more than satisfactory. If the Sun and Moon of both are in opposition or in a square, then the fullness may be illusory. In any case, insurmountable spiritual hunger will not arise. The one that poets wrote about. Often the Capricorn girls rather slowly develop their sexual instincts, and the same can be said about many, but not all Aquarius. Therefore, the later they get married, the more they hope for a successful marriage.
The basis for disagreement may be her exaggerated devotion to her family or his refusal to respect decency in relation to neighbors and relatives. But they better focus on each other’s good qualities and not focus on small siege troubles and differences. The Capricorn woman can be surprisingly loving, emotional, steady and faithful, with a strong sense of moral responsibility. She rarely does something that hurts him, or puts her in an awkward position. This is true for all Capricorns, with the exception of the rare representatives of this sign who, in childhood, chose the wrong path and are not capable of romantic love, taking sexual love for granted, a kind of handshake.
As for the virtues of Aquarius as a father and husband, no one else can maintain intellectual interest for so long, and love begins with reason. That is, it begins with the mind for those born in the element of Air, like Aquarius. For those born in the elements of the Earth, like Capricorn, love begins with emotional stability. Aquarius is a little lacking in reliability and emotional security. But with the help of tolerance and patience from his girlfriend, he can learn this.