She looked at him with the most sincere admiration, and he thought that it was because he had run away, but in fact it was because he knew the fairies.
These two will certainly notice each other in the crowd, and there are many reasons for this. But the main thing is the music that both of them hear, and sometimes only they. The Aquarius girl always felt that no one really understood her. Most often, people judge her wrongly, believing that her head is full of wild inventions and that she is an extravagant girl who was born several centuries ahead of schedule. He doesn’t think so.
But no one ever really understood him. Most people judge him incorrectly, considering him unreliable, too talkative and completely irresponsible. Almost everyone except her.
The first recognition of the relationship between Gemini and Aquarius always resembles the meeting of the Little Prince and the pilot at Saint Exupery. In childhood, the pilot drew a boa constrictor that swallowed an elephant. Whoever he showed the picture to, people never knew that it was a boa constrictor swallowing an elephant, and they always said: “Yes, this hat is very well drawn.” And when others do not understand you, then you feel so alone … Once, when he was an adult, the pilot met a strange little boy in the desert who asked him to draw a lamb. An annoyed pilot drew the same picture from his childhood – the one that everyone took for a hat. But the Little Prince (and it was he) shook his head and said: “No, no; I do not need a boa constrictor that swallowed an elephant. I asked you to draw me a lamb.”
Here is the music that I mean. You don’t have to explain anything … but they understand you! Only music, not ordinary words, can convey that part of the joy that boils in the soul when, after many years of lonely, fruitless searches, you find someone who actually (not almost, but in fact) understands and acknowledges all your secret desires and communication attempts are all that others laughed at.
Later it may turn out that this music from other areas contains a couple of unpleasant notes somewhere in the middle of a symphony of love between Aquarius and Gemini. But this is such a trifle compared to those inharmonious melodies and torn rhythms that they both had to endure before they finally found each other! Although there is no ideal relationship, the Solar Signs scheme 5-9 comes closer to this state than any other combination. If the Sun and Moon of such a pair are in conjunction or in the favorable aspects of trine or sextile, these two can achieve harmony in life and in love. Even without such help from the planets, they suit each other more than many others, and usually remain friends if they are destined to leave. But one of them is always ahead of the other on the Zodiac wheel – both in spiritual level and in karmic experience. In this case, this is a Aquarius woman who, in a subconscious, spiritual sense, is wiser than the Gemini man whom she loves. Therefore, she will have to give more and be more tolerant. Most Aquarius are well aware of what patience is. Uranus, who taught them humanism, gives rise to the spirit of brotherhood in a woman-Aquarius. Perhaps she has too many friends – at least in the opinion of men born under other signs. The twin man may not find time to be indignant at the strange environment that she collects, because he himself is too busy talking. If both of them are typical of their signs, their house will be more likely to be filled with people than empty. Most Aquarius are well aware of what patience is. Uranus, who taught them humanism, gives rise to the spirit of brotherhood in a woman-Aquarius. Perhaps she has too many friends – at least in the opinion of men born under other signs. The twin man may not find time to be indignant at the strange environment that she collects, because he himself is too busy talking. If both of them are typical of their signs, their house will be more likely to be filled with people than empty. Most Aquarius are well aware of what patience is. Uranus, who taught them humanism, gives rise to the spirit of brotherhood in a woman-Aquarius. Perhaps she has too many friends – at least in the opinion of men born under other signs. The twin man may not find time to be indignant at the strange environment that she collects, because he himself is too busy talking. If both of them are typical of their signs, their house will be more likely to be filled with people than empty.
These two can make many mistakes, but they will always be interesting mistakes, and very rarely boring ones. His mistake is likely to be the hope that she will come to terms with his petty deceptions. Aquarius women claim absolute honesty and openness in every way. They do what they want and never hide it, regardless of whether it is approved by society or not. But the Gemini man is insightful and smart enough to see a special kind of dishonesty, which consists in missing some details. True, she tells the truth, but sometimes not all, but only part of her, only what she wants to talk about, never opening all her cards. When he accuses her of this, she portrays surprise and resentment. He can notice her
The game of honesty between Gemini and Aquarius is very complex, and they are the only ones who can unravel all the nodules. Sometimes they do it, sometimes not, but they never stop trying – they both love intellectual games, both are amateur detectives who instinctively do not miss a single detail. For Gemini, this talent is obvious, while for Aquarius it is sometimes hidden under the guise of innocence and indifference.
She is mistaken in believing that he means exactly what he is saying. The twin man never means exactly what he says. He uses words as bait to charm, persuade, persuade and cajole, and sometimes as a weapon to mockingly tease and offend. Another mistake is to cry in front of the twin man. Too emotional scenes scare him like a child, and in response he often speaks words that seem cold and indifferent. And this is just a weapon – so he protects himself from the pain that empathy brings. He does not want any pain if it can be avoided.
The Twin Man weaves words into sentences, as a skilled wizard pulls the strings of colored beads, takes another rabbit or waving scarf from his hat, causing the audience to sigh and gasp with admiration. Today he is happy, tomorrow – unhappy, the day after tomorrow – cheerful and full of strength. His emotions are sincere, they are real. They just do not last long. The Aquarius girl is usually better than most women, tolerates the variability of his moods, and you know why? Most often, she simply does not notice anything – nothing at all. See this hazy, distant expression in her eyes? This is because it flew somewhere into the clouds or into the future, instantly losing contact with the Earth and everything that is on it, including its moods.
In her youth, the Aquarius girl surrounds her lover (sometimes imaginary) with an aura that would never have stayed above the head of an average man with the usual set of flaws. She learns to hide her vulnerability under the guise of a calm, friendly relationship such as “be friends,” and if she agrees to less, she still retains the sentimental illusions of youth in her soul. Therefore, the older she will be when she meets Gemini, the less she will be upset because of his easy attitude towards love. By then, she would learn this herself. The Aquarius almost always have this strange turn. If she marries more than once, the last marriage is quite late when she finds someone who needs the wisdom of Uranus. Then she will turn this man into the starry dream of her youth, as a rule, achieving the realization of his ideal of love-friendship. Last love can be a Twin, who also seeks a combination of love and friendship and as often mixes these two feelings as she does.
And the Aquarius woman, well, the Gemini men have internal fears and doubts about their sexual attractiveness. Sometime in the past, both of them might have some kind of problem with their sexuality. Maybe someone reproached them with insolvency or insensitivity, but just this “someone!” could be a man of the sign of Fire, Earth or Water. Together, they will be able to prove to each other the falsity of such accusations. Gemini and Aquarius can give as much as they expect from them, and rarely demand more than what they are given, and isn’t it possible to achieve a happy balance in sexual union? Unless none of them have the inharmonious Venus or Mars, they should receive more sexual satisfaction from their physical union than with those partners that they once had or maybe will later.
Sometimes you have to leave, but these two almost always remain close people, finding each other the same relationship as at the beginning. When the Gemini or Aquarius is hurt, they both fall back to a safe, emotionally undemanding friendship. Friendship is a wonderful thing, but sometimes Gemini and Aquarius sacrifice love for her, because love needs more faith and courage than just friendships.
Between this man and this woman there is some obvious secret, a shining thread that connected them if they are real soul mates, like Aries and Leo, Taurus and Capricorn … and all the signs of scheme 5-9. If they want, they can pull this thread and pull each other again. Of course, not every union of 5–9 is an obligatory relationship of souls, but it always allows these two to know each other more easily than lovers who are influenced by other schemes of the Solar Signs.
If only he understands that when she laughs, she can sob in her soul, and when she cries, she can be inwardly happy … And if only she understands that he can fly away today and return tomorrow (or next week, in next month or year, but sooner or later – necessarily), in their love there will be more pleasure than pain. Together, Gemini and Aquarius can work miracles – for example, fuse several realities into one enchanted. And they would never have accepted a drawing depicting a boa constrictor who swallowed an elephant for a picture with an ordinary hat.