As already mentioned, Libra and Aries are facing each other on the Karmic wheel of life. The astrological rule is that if you are strongly attracted to the opposite solar sign of the other sex, then you usually do not converge with this sign of the same gender. Then, it seems, the Aries woman and the Libra man should be precisely those lovers who are destined to live together happily all their lives. They are beloved by nature, because it is the influence of Venus. But another fate may be destined for them, if between their horoscopes there is no harmonious connection between the Sun and the Moon.
A waste of time for astrologers to constantly remind about the fatal charm of a Libra man for women. He has enjoyed steady success since he was thirteen years old (or earlier), and he usually responds to flattery with Libra’s famous charming smile. He is well aware of the blessings given to him at birth by Venus. But he most likely does not understand that all this charm can become a curse if he connects his life with the Aries woman (no one ever just maintains a relationship with Aries, namely, connects).
The woman who follows him wherever he goes is able to turn from a soft lamb into a fire-breathing dragon, in which the irrational Mars jealousy bubble most often. Nevertheless, before he decides to leave her, because she interferes with his fun life, the Libra man will ponder the word “love.” The more it accumulates in the depths of the soul, the more powerful and satisfying passion it can become.
Falling in love, getting married for the sake of marriage are Libra’s usual mistakes. His lover may be sweet and desirable, but if she is not bright enough to argue with him, challenging him, his beautiful mind will become rusty. This will not happen with the Aries girl. Their intellectual disputes will last them for several lives.
When the Libra man begins to worry, yearn for lost freedom and break free, where there are so many seductive women, Aries, most likely, will not timidly ask why he is leaving, but will cry out: “And where are you going?” It would be better for her, of course, to tame her anger, which could frighten the Libra man so much that he would rush to run headlong, even forgetting to pack his suitcase. Aries will win if it uses the logic of Libra as a weapon. “Think, dear. Life is more than a long evening with wine, women and music. When the wine is drunk, you only have an empty bottle. Then the holiday will end. Of course, this bottle can be refilled again, right? Your ability to love really inexhaustible? But why don’t you direct the romantic motives in a different direction – to literature, music, art? I could help you. My mind is no less bright than yours, although our bodies are different, because you are a man and I am a woman. “The last reminder is necessary. When a Libra man is forced to think about gender differences, he becomes helpless.
A typical Aries woman is unlikely to follow this advice. Rather, she will scream: “Get out! Who needs you!” – He will throw him out the door, slam it shut, ban him, throw out his cassette and a bathrobe from the window, and then will erupt all night in useless anger and regret. But my advice: really the only way to communicate with Libra is honesty, logic, reason.
In the relationship between Aries and Libra, in this combination of Fire and Air, there is so much good that it’s just a shame for them to waste time arguing. A typical Aries woman does not need a man endowed only with biceps. She is looking for a lover with a powerful mind, which just applies to the Libra man. He encourages her to challenge both mentally and emotionally and will enjoy their disputes – as long as they play by the rules, without touching each other’s complexes and do not step on sore and sensitive places.
Tact and politeness are the natural qualities of Libra, however, Aries did not give anything like this. Aries woman actually never wants to be rude and unkind, and especially in relation to the man she loves. She simply does not think before speaking, and her opinion may be overly self-confident. Do not forget. Aries – A sunny sign of the supportive dictator. Benevolent dictators care about people, are compassionate, noble, and devote themselves to the cause of the common good. But they are not worried about what those people they care about need. Like dictators-benefactors, Aries does not care what others want, he is sure that he knows this better than they do. Warmth combined with arrogance is an explosive mixture, but all signs of Fire possess such a combination, and therefore their friends, relatives, lovers,
If someone points out the Aries girl to her shortcomings, acting with tact, gentleness and love, she will definitely listen, quickly find a mistake in her actions (she does everything quickly) and will begin to work hard on herself to please her neighbor. But when this woman is ordered or forced to stop and not follow the erroneous course that she chose. Aries will not give up. This is too much like a retreat, and Aries never retreats. Mars is the planet of war. Back off? Never! Since it is ruled by Mars, you will not wait for such a woman to dutifully accept domination of herself or harsh criticism. If anyone can turn the Aries woman into an obedient lamb (except for Leo and sometimes Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius), then this is Libra man. He gently corrects it, helps to see errors in such a gentle form, that it will be like a spell. And nine times out of ten will win. For the tenth time, he should leave everything as it is, consider himself happy. It is impossible to win all disputes. The difficulty is that Libra needs to win them all. Aries too. Thus, until one of them beautifully admits his defeat (at least sometimes), there will be no peace and quiet in their relationship, which the Libra man needs as desperately as the Aries woman in excitement. It would be useful for her to give him peace and quiet, because then he will be able to calm her secret fears. It will also be useful for him to give her the excitement that she needs, because this will shake him and give the necessary balance to the scales. that Libra needs to win them all. Aries too. Thus, until one of them beautifully admits his defeat (at least sometimes), there will be no peace and quiet in their relationship, which the Libra man needs as desperately as the Aries woman in excitement. It would be useful for her to give him peace and quiet, because then he will be able to calm her secret fears. It will also be useful for him to give her the excitement that she needs, because this will shake him and give the necessary balance to the scales. that Libra needs to win them all. Aries too. Thus, until one of them beautifully admits his defeat (at least sometimes), there will be no peace and quiet in their relationship, which the Libra man needs as desperately as the Aries woman in excitement. It would be useful for her to give him peace and quiet, because then he will be able to calm her secret fears. It will also be useful for him to give her the excitement that she needs, because this will shake him and give the necessary balance to the scales.
The unbeaten optimism of the Libra men will instantly find a response in the heart of the Aries girl, as it corresponds to her pure faith in tomorrow. Her naive belief that, if you believe very strongly, everything will come true, is so close and understandable to him that it can even cause a mean male tear (he is sentimental). She loves sentimentality in him and falls in love with him because he combines strength and tenderness in herself, which she is looking for.
But the Aries woman becomes impatient and reproaches him for being lazy when he begins to relax, not realizing that people controlled by Venus need to rest between long periods of energy activity. Her nature is completely different, she rarely needs to rest.
Most of all she likes softness and goodwill in him. Those same qualities he loves the most and he is in her. In a world full of cold, disinterested, isolated people, this is so important! And this creates an amazingly solid foundation for their relationship.
Since they are a combination of solar signs 7-7, they will hardly have any disputes in the bedroom. They can quarrel, in the kitchen, in the front, on the back porch, in the garden, in the basement, in the attic or in the garage, but when it comes time to kiss each other at night, all the arguments subside. However, reconciliation based on non-repetitive sexual attraction cannot last forever (unless the harmony of the sun and moon helps).
He is soft, poetic, endowed with imagination, attentive, charming, romantic, and all this makes her tremble. Libra’s approach to sex is mental, light, airy. Libra men tend to flickering ideals and sometimes soar too high in their experiences and erotic expressions of sensuality. Aries woman is striving for something more tangible and wants to keep it. Even more than a dream, she loves hot hands and a fiery passion that can be touched. An unearthly love and an aesthetic approach to sex can leave this woman cold. Aries women need great passion and ardent, even violent manifestations of it, in order to achieve satisfaction. With a Libra man, she may experience a feeling of emptiness. Something is missing in the melody of their love – perhaps the last, highest note. But if she has a Ray in Libra, Gemini, Aquarius, Sagittarius,
If the Moon of both was at birth in some other astrological sign, then it is unlikely that anything will work out … But it’s worth looking anyway.