Usually, considering a type 1-1 relationship between a man and a woman, in the first place in the headline I put a woman. In addition, it is a tribute to courtesy. With Libra, the opposite is true, and there are reasons for that.
Libra is a male solar sign that is ruled by the female planet Venus. Let’s face it, this means that the nature of the Libra man, no matter what gender he belongs to, can not be unambiguously defined as male or female, because both male and female qualities are reflected in it. There is nothing offensive in this. Such a mixture of equal shares only leads to the fact that Libra women are unusually attractive and sensual, and Libra men are strong, and at the same time, Libra men are attractively sensual, and Libra women are delightfully strong. To understand all this, you need to understand where one ends and another begins. I will tell you frankly why I started with a man: someone had to give in, and, in fairness, this should have been done by a woman. If she really loves a man, she will succumb to him – in the end, their relationship is built on an equal footing. She will not hurt his male pride in anything, but he will be able to appreciate her feminine qualities, because the order established by Mother Nature should never be violated. Sometimes a Libra girl, even if she seems to be a collective image of all the seductive women from Eve to Cleopatra, must remind herself which of the two of them is actually a man. And it’s not difficult for her, because she is endowed with such an ability to charm, such tact and talent for soft persuasion, which would be enough for several lives. Astrology does not recommend her to silently agree with his requirements or to contribute to the manifestation of male superiority in him. She can hide internal strength behind external meekness and not demonstrate her intelligence without special need. But she must understand that he is also superior to her, in some respects. Then everything will be fine.
Since they are both mental Air Signs, they simply cannot exist without periodic long discussions that can turn into serious debate. This can be avoided if you agree to discuss only those issues on which there can be no discrepancy between sane people.
For the sake of harmony, Libra usually compromises. They tend to cooperate by nature, unless, in their opinion, issues of morality and ethics are affected. Then it is equally difficult for both of them to give up their opinions. If one of them decides that the other is acting dishonestly with him, or if the situation seems unfair, the usual compromise and cooperation for Libra will be replaced by anger, and feelings will be expressed verbally. But neither he nor she will silently sulk in the corner: they will discuss their problems until they somehow solve them, even if it takes all night. And this is not the best option, since Libra needs more rest and sleep than people of other signs, otherwise their usually living mind becomes dull and loses its clarity. They even stop thinking logically!
From an astrological point of view, it’s interesting that Libra’s lovers or spouses often bear alliterative names like Henry and Helen, Mack and Mary, Jim and Janet. All these are real couples in which both partners are Libra. Do I mention men first again? It is unfair to mention one gender before the other – a delicate balance must be maintained in everything. Moreover, it is simply not harmonious. Don’t you think?
Helen, Mary and Janet think so. It would be better for both Henry, Mack and Jim to think so – if they do not want to start one of those long disputes characteristic of Libra, in which a woman always wins. Who can withstand the blow of an iron fist in a velvet glove and be the winner? In any case, not a good-natured Libra man. Among other things, what side do you think Venus will be on? You are absolutely right – that is how it will happen!
As in all other cases of the combination 1-1, the Libra man and woman must understand that it is precisely because of the similarities of the characters that they need to ensure that the negative inclinations of one are not enhanced by similar properties of the other. They will have to be careful not to support in each other that which is not at all a virtue. For example, interest in parties, which can take various forms of self-indulgence. Venus’ love of sweets also doubles difficulties; and the already mentioned tendency to debate, if you do not direct this energy in the right direction on time, can lead to a long conflict, which is extremely harmful for Libra and can very badly affect their mental health. In addition, there is still a Venus craving for romance, which sometimes becomes the cause of infidelity and jealousy, so it’s better for these two to flirt only with each other – this will preserve their love in a wonderful way when all the other pairs of Solar signs get tired of each other and forget about romance. These two are usually sensitive to the feelings of the other and are able to receive pleasure from the coincidence of interests. They both love music and art in general, long walks and reading. Their house almost always has good books and a collection of music. They like to go to the cinema, and then discuss dialogues, the actors’ play, the director’s plan, the light, the camera work and the plot. Libra is a born critic, especially those with the Moon or Ascendant in Virgo or Gemini. the pleasure of coinciding interests. They both love music and art in general, long walks and reading. Their house almost always has good books and a collection of music. They like to go to the cinema, and then discuss dialogues, the actors’ play, the director’s plan, the light, the camera work and the plot. Libra is a born critic, especially those with the Moon or Ascendant in Virgo or Gemini. the pleasure of coinciding interests. They both love music and art in general, long walks and reading. Their house almost always has good books and a collection of music. They like to go to the cinema, and then discuss dialogues, the actors’ play, the director’s plan, the light, the camera work and the plot. Libra is a born critic, especially those with the Moon or Ascendant in Virgo or Gemini.
Libra is a sign marked by beauty, and all are attractive in their own way. But this also means that Libra appreciates the beauty in others, and when at least one of them no longer experiences physical pleasure when looking at a partner, he can begin to look for beauty in someone else. True, even mental betrayal subconsciously offends their moral feeling and makes each of them return to the one whom they almost changed.
If someone analyzes the alchemy of their sexual relationship, it turns out that it consists of 70 percent of spiritual kinship, 20 percent of attachment, and 10 percent of physical attraction. But do not be mistaken. These 10 percent contain more than the same amount in other men and women. There is magic of imagination in Libra’s love: it will never be monotonous, it will never lose its freshness. Rather, they will suffer from periods of evasion and alienation, then he plunges headlong into work, and she is completely busy with business, home or children. However, their feeling may awaken again from the slightest gesture, from an invisible impulse, because their connection with each other is subtle and strong at the same time. An old love letter accidentally found in a drawer …
A typical Libra man is usually successful in business, no matter what he does. He may be a representative of a free profession or work in a large company, but he is rarely content with simply fulfilling someone’s orders. Libra is a cardinal sign, and he must lead. If the periods of bad luck and forced subordination are prolonged, this can lead to home dictatorship, because Libra needs to be supervised by someone. However, we must give them their due – usually even this looks very nice …
The typical Libra woman is an excellent hostess. She has enough talent and taste to turn an ordinary standard dwelling into a cozy house, filled with a special air of kindness and beauty. She is collected and calm at a critical moment, and “you can rely on her. His dreams are her dreams. Moreover, she is the one who can achieve them. She will sacrifice a lot, but help her man graduate from police school and get a doctor’s diploma or a lawyer, to become an actor, writer, artist or musician, executive director of an airline or a candy store – she will share all his aspirations with the same fervor, and really – what would he mean without her?