Any Pisces girl has many wonderful qualities, traits and talents, so it is not surprising why the Pisces man, who is in love with a Neptunian woman, feels that he has finally found himself in the cool, clear waters of that love that he always dreamed of. She lived in his subconscious, and as soon as he saw this wonderful girl, he realized that he was striving for her.
Girl-Pisces is also full of vague memories of sadness and joy, about the expectation of a miracle. And as soon as she saw the shining eyes of this man, she recognized him immediately.
It would be amazing if we could put an end right here, following the familiar fairy tale ending “and they lived happily ever after.” But it’s impossible. You must first go through the Black Forest and fight with all the dragons, witches, ugly toads and Horrible Hulks that go out to meet or hide in the lagoons, waiting for our fishes in love to grab them, tear them apart and throw them into a terrible well of loneliness.
I really do not want to switch from poetry to prose, but we must move on to the more common problems of Neptunian compatibility.
Like any pair of scheme 1-1, two people sent by one planet (in this case, of course, Neptune) must face an increase and strengthening of both the positive and negative sides of each person’s personality. In the case of the Pisces-Pisces pair, the general positive qualities that can easily be doubled are: softness, sensitivity, imagination, creative spirit, empathy and sensitivity, originality and wit, plus common sense.
The negative qualities of Pisces that they will have to desperately fight so that they do not ruin their love are too much reverie, idleness, laziness, confusion, sloppiness and chaos, slowness, fears, phobias and various forms of neurosis, the temptation to lie sometimes (and strange the habit of occasionally depicting for each other a rug at the door, on which you can wipe your feet).
Pisces’s personal anxiety also doubles (even quadruples, given that they have four Pisces for two) when these lovers enter into some kind of emotional relationship. If one of them has a strong Moon sign or Ascendant in the elements of the Earth, he or she can become a reliable anchor of stability for the other. (The Water Moon sign or Ascendant is good for harmony, but we are talking about defensive stability.) Without such support, these two may face danger, either confuse each other with fantasies and fears, or indifferently swim through love or marriage, too fragile to to be durable.
There are Pisces who are afraid of their own shadow. There are others (called the Whales) who are not afraid of either man or the beast – at least they say they are not afraid. It is always helpful to remember that Pisces do not always say what they think. Some Pisces are more afraid of themselves than external circumstances or people, never try to move forward and miss the opportunity of everything that they really would like to do. And then, there are the Dolphins playful, insightful and endowed with a brilliant mind.
Especially the sympathetic nature of Pisces can lead to the fact that they will be hypersensitive to sensory impressions, which can sometimes be misleading. If in the horoscope of one of them there are more planets in the Earth signs than the other, the more “earthly” Fish will blame the less practical that it refuses to face the facts, that it looks at the world through pink glasses and is therefore full of illusions. This, in fact, is the root of all Neptunian fears and phobias – in the memory of how the golden eagle too often turned into a gray fog. Yet one of this couple can cling to their illusions, knowing that they are more real than what seems to be true, and surprisingly often by the perseverance of their faith proving this. When this happens, it is called a miracle.
It is possible that he or she is a Fish swimming in the wrong direction, which behaves as if life itself is a dream. Or one of them may be the Fish-Whale, which laughs at secrets, ignores spiritual truth, – a loud, talkative, unceremonious and aggressive whale. Or even a Shark.
Aggressive or fierce Pisces are those who have seen too much ugliness in this life and hide their broken heart behind erratic connections and sharp speech. In this case, the stronger Fish needs to treat the other with great sympathy. It takes endless patience to save a Fish that beats in the dark waters of frustration and swims against the tide, against the natural movement of the Pisces experience.
A woman-fish can easily catch a man-fish in a network of love and keep him in it. She intuitively feels that he does not like when trying to penetrate his thoughts. A partner aspiring to command would never be able to keep this person, and the typical Pisces girl is submissive, smart, even wise, but still vulnerable enough to impress his sense of male patronage, which is so necessary to maintain in him. And vice versa, she needs a partner who is gentle enough to treat her hypersensitive soul with precaution and caution, and no one can do this better than a man of her own sign.
Their physical intimacy will rarely be excessively passionate and demanding, but, after all, not everyone needs thrills every night. This does not mean that they will be cold and indifferent. In fact, the sexual experiences between two Pisces can be very deep. They can be saved by their love from the gloomy, dull, mundane monotony of the material world, as a natural fish tends from stagnant backwaters and bays to a cool, green ocean, sparkling in the sun, caressing the shore with a soft splash of waves in the moonlight. Sex between these two people can be just so pure, fresh, free, full of mystical poetry of romantic love. The medieval knights and their beautiful ladies must have known this.
If the Pisces woman notices that the Pisces man is somehow dissatisfied with his work, depressed at home and seems more and more secretive, detached and indifferent, she should try to listen more closely to his silence, and then she will be able to help him. Fishes are rarely prone to introspection, despite their intuitive instinct for the feelings of others. He was born under the control of Neptune and instinctively understands that man is a spirit, he has a soul. And this is just what he wants to regain – his soul? A Pisces man at heart is an exalted beggar, blessed, dreaming to leave after the ringing song of a field lark, wherever she leads him. But the modern materialistic world does not allow him to either confess his secret desires or express them.
If he does not find a way to actively pursue his real goal, he may choke in despair, sometimes, unfortunately, trying to satisfy his sorrows with aimless wanderings, alcohol or drugs. He needs a woman who understands this, who will not bind him with the chains of his fear or condemn his soul for the passion.
As for the Pisces girl, her mood swings and periodic tears, a long silence almost always mean that she also wants to leave the cramped aquarium and swim out into the vast expanses of miracles and adventures. No matter how patient she is, she is tired of only reading about the adventures of other people who dare to drop responsibility and pursue the strange winds.
All she needs is a light touch on her hand, some sign, a return light in the eyes of her husband or lover Pisces, saying that he knows how much and passionately she wants to exchange security for freedom. Then they can leave together, regardless of whether it is time to take a vacation now. A Neptunian persistent alarm clock rings and tells both of them that it is time to follow your dream. Now or never.
Then they urgently need to flee and buy tickets to Ireland, Scotland, Wales, Switzerland or Tibet. Money? Only on the road. Providence will provide them with food and shelter in a mysterious and mystical way. Man and woman, understood by Neptune, know this better than anyone, but they tend to forget about it from time to time, when they allow the care of tomorrow to prevail and suppress them.
When they allow themselves to live and love freely, they can turn into Dolphins, wisely and merrily frolic together in peace, harmony and satisfaction and warning each other in time about the dangers. But if they can’t get out of the worn-out rut and let all their golden hopes fly by, after some time they will start to deceive each other, avoid emotional confrontation, go further and further into themselves. Do you know what it’s called? This is laziness. And this is a very unfortunate ending for a magical story.