If the aspect of the Sun-Moon between them is favorable, they can find happiness without much effort, like any other man and woman descended from Adam and Eve. True, these two must be more vigilant with the vile snake-tempter than most lovers. Without astrological support (if the stars and planets in their horoscopes do not form favorable aspects), these signs of Air and Water would consider it much easier and safer to remain friends, avoiding the impulses of passion and risky vows of eternal love. This does not mean that they are denied compatibility, they just have to be ready for continuous efforts.
To begin with, “eternal” is a word that scares a Gemini woman just as much as a word “temporary” scares a Scorpio man. Not to say that she is not able to love and be devoted to one man (and many twin girls are not capable of this), but this should happen quietly, gradually, until one day she finds out that this is so. The use of the word “eternal” at the very beginning of the novel makes its ending uninteresting and can bring everything to nothing. And vice versa, it’s not that the Scorpio man could not cope with the concept of “temporary” in the same way as any other man, but the use of this word in itself raises doubts and suspicions in him and deprives him of a sense of power and domination in this love affair. At first he will be charmed: this charm in his voice, like bubbles in champagne, this living mind, this her easy approach to any situation! In the end, he is just a man, despite the image of Batman in a mask and cloak, and just can not resist the apple stretched out by Eve, like any other astrological sign. But some time will pass, and he will begin to notice that some of her fascinating stories, with slight changes, go in the second round. (The twins always add a little here, a little decrease there – for greater effect. Or maybe not only them?) That she is able to be late for two or three dates in a row. At this moment or at another similar level of insight, the Scorpio man will wipe the stardust from his eyes, take a long and attentive look at the woman who almost stole his heart, and prudently decides to think a little more before giving a promise to God love, respect and cherish it until the end of their days. (At heart, Scorpio is very religious.) If he gave his word, he should not violate it, so he can stop courting until he is convinced that she has no more surprises that she could suddenly present to him (like one or two marriages or divorces, about which she forgot to tell him). Will she notice it? She is too preoccupied with thoughts about how long she can bear his encroachment on her personal life, poking her nose in her secrets (nothing bad or certainly shocking, there are just things that she prefers to keep to herself) and his jealousy. Well, a girl can’t smile sweetly in response to the seller’s smile in a bookstore or stop on the street to talk with a friendly stranger about how best to care for Old English shepherds? And he? How he stares at all women! And how are they at him?
In a predicament, she can only blame herself. She, as a Gemini, should have known that the Scorpio man, with his deep, strong and magnetic voice and firm and intelligent gaze, possesses the charm of a tempter snake. His impressiveness is an external manifestation of strength and tranquility, and underneath is the silent call of the male, which few women can resist.
One of the first things she will discover in him is incredible willpower. It simply cannot be believed. This man, if he sets a goal, can do anything. If he decides to starve for a month, he will live on the same water all this time. If he wants to become president of a company, company or country, he will become one. If he wants to make the girl stay with him forever, she will lose the battle long before he starts it.
Why is it all for a Gemini girl who wants nothing from life, except for change, pleasant excitement, fun and some kind of mental game? But when she feels that the vibrations of Pluto reach her, do you think she is running away, how would she run away from a panting gorilla in the jungle? You would think so. But not me. Because I understand the astrological trick that makes the Scorpio man from time to time look like an innocent deer with velvet eyes. He is so sweet, gentle and vulnerable, so obviously needs affection and sincere support that a girl should have a heart of stone if she can hurt him by running away from him. There is something so soft in his manner that she forgets about the hard look like steel, which appears in him when he discovers his hidden power and icy determination.
But perhaps enough about how and why these two fall in love. It’s more important to understand how they manage to keep love. Since Scorpio is a Permanent Sign, he has great self-control. It will come in handy for him when she will test his patience with her chameleon charm, bouts of bad mood, distraction and duality of purpose. Since Gemini is a Moving Sign, she knows how to adapt, and this will help her cope with unsettling scenes. She will need all her abilities in order to maintain ease and composure when he suddenly becomes stubborn or flames up because of a trifle immediately after an angelic understanding. (It is always difficult to decide whether he is an angel or a devil …)
She needs to remember the following: this man wants to know where she is and what she does most of the time (if not all the time). He expects her to sit in one place (if not always, then often). He will frown because of her nostalgic tears for old friends. Due to her careless attitude to money. Due to her bizarre transitions from one hobby to another. From singing to dancing, then to painting, then to traveling around the world – whenever the seasons change in nature, and also because of her restless, Mercury-driven character.
What does she offer him? Pieces of devotion, rare, kisses, flashes of irritation, almost incredible naivety and icy contempt, a motley mixture of enthusiastic love, volatile judgments and opinions. And where can she get the self-confidence and composure given to him from birth?
She, of course, will tease him – most of the twin women are so feminine, careless, talented smart! But the Gemini is a male sign, and Mercury, the ruling planet of the Gemini, changes gender as unpredictably as the wind changes direction. Therefore, there will be a time when she will offend his male pride, and there will be a time when she will flatter him in this. She is always smart enough to charm him. Neon can be disappointed to find that her mind glides over the surface of most concepts, instead of probing their depth and reaching the core – as in everything from religion to reincarnation, from politics to polygamy, from sin to sex, it does it.
So we got to the sexual side of their love. Although Scorpio is a strong sexual sign, he is able to abstain, chastity, and self-control (the life of monks and priests). But if he fell in love with a Gemini woman, he, apparently, is not the Scorpio who chose the strict discipline of abstinence for himself. However, sex is not a game for him, not a pleasant pastime and not a bit of a sport. Sex is the very secret of life. A woman who understands the most secret desires of her Scorpio man does not need to worry about his fidelity (if there are no adverse aspects in his horoscope). Usually a Scorpio man who knows that he is truly loved will not look somewhere to the side.
Scorpio shows a great curiosity about sex in his youth, but he probably satisfies most of his curiosity by the time he gets married. His attitude to the physical side of love is deep and passionate, unusually sensual, but with some severity.
However, the problem is that for a Gemini woman, sex is not a secret of life itself. For her, experience is important, not the deeper revelations of sexual union. And she does not at all strive to penetrate the essence of this with real feeling and strength. This is just a pleasant pastime, that’s all. However, this very impartiality may cause the Scorpio man to want to prove to her that Love and God are interconnected and that all living things are nothing without the harmony of Men and Women. You already know how Scorpio hates losing (refusing to lose is better than accepting losing). In the intimate sphere of their sexual union, he is simply obliged to win. With the harmony of the relations of the Sun and. The moon in their horoscopes, he will try again and again to explain this greatest of all the mysteries to his twin girlfriend. In the absence of such an aspect between their luminaries or if their planets in horoscopes are in an unfavorable position, he can do the unthinkable (for Scorpio) – change. And to justify the violation of his oaths by the fact that he cannot endure the half-heartedness of the love that he receives. And that will be true …
They are able to overcome these difficulties, and he can teach her the secrets of universal love harmony. Scorpio is a representative of the eighth astrological house (and he is associated with sex), and the twin woman feels this. In fact, her impassivity is nothing more than a mask. A mask can always be removed if you really want it.
It is difficult for a typical Gemini woman to comprehend the integrity of the man of Pluto, but if she has the Moon or Ascendant in Scorpio, these two can be unusually happy, to the surprise of their near and dear ones, who see only the external differences between them. Other vibrations of the combination of 6-8 in their relationship can cause them to suffer from time to time. She will feel his suspicion or will be frightened and puzzled by his inexplicable ice withdrawals into herself.
He can shun her, hiding his soul, as they are hiding from the wind, which uproots trees with roots. Fortunately, she is smart enough to find a way to restore their relationship, and Scorpio has enough intuition to understand how to repair all the cracks so that their relationship becomes stronger than before. If each of them wants it.