When someone calls an Aries girl impudent, unceremonious, overly emotional, impulsive, impractical and impossibly immature, her loving Virgo man is unlikely to agree with this. He did not notice that one of these traits is inherent.
For him, she is very feminine (Maybe too much, so it’s hard for him to manage), sincere and honest, fresh and innocent. “She is generous in time and money,” he will say. “She shared my idealism, taught me a lot and was always soft and kind. Maybe sometimes she is a little touchy or jealous, but she never arranged real scenes. She is always ready to discuss everything with me and listen to my arguments. And when we put up after a little quarrel, she again made me believe in happiness, as for the very first time. She is soft, tender and forever young. ” His interlocutor, most likely, will doubt that we are talking about Aries.
But this is Aries, ruled by Mars, the planet, war and aggressiveness. Aries woman surprisingly often shows her hidden femininity and deeply hidden ability to selflessly love if she loves a man of the sign of the Virgin. When she finds a person who is kind and attentive, who admires her courage and bright mind, rarely competes with her, carefully teaches her, sympathizes with shortcomings and believes in her dreams, she gives him all her heart. Her hidden insecurity inherent in Aries, and secret fears disappear, and with them – the need for aggressive behavior. Why would she fight with someone if the all-consuming love, which she so stubbornly seeks, is brought to her as a gift without a trace, as the Virgo man always does?
Then why do they break up?
Virgo is instinctively afraid of marriage. Since the Aries woman cannot be called patient, she expects that all her wishes will be fulfilled immediately, and therefore she can not stand it (sometimes too soon), burst into tears and finally convince herself that it was only a wonderful friendship. Oddly enough, it is friendship that often ends in a failed romance between them. Thanks to the innate politeness and gallantry of the Virgin, they are almost not tormented by bitter memories.
And yet sometimes their love lasts forever, and then their life is beautiful. However, difficulties arise in it too (though there will be few of them). The main thing is not to approach them too emotionally.
He is ready to take a sober view of the world, without self-deception, but she may need some help (most often a lot). Virgo man easily analyzes the situation and knows how to reach a compromise. He doesn’t even have to make an effort. Everything happens instinctively, naturally. Aries woman approaches the problem in a different way: first knock with a hammer, then butt with horns. Well, if this does not work, then she is ready to sit down and discuss all the pros and cons, but all the pros may be on her side; and “against” – on him. Therefore, it would be nice to learn endurance and rationality.
All these kind words about the Aries girl, which he spoke a little higher, are not erased in his memory. If the romance lasts a long time or develops into marriage, it may begin to seem a little less like an angel to him, and he is not so holy to her. Several of their trifling quarrels will cool his tendency to criticize her. If he is a true analyst, he will soon realize that it is safer with her when she is hot than when she is cold. As I have repeatedly advised, you should be more afraid of Aries ice than its flame. The fire goes out, and the ice can shock the poor fellow when the Aries woman stops screaming for nothing and says goodbye. If she once left, she is unlikely to look back: today’s freedom for her can be much more important than the rapidly erasing memories of a past heartache. It has already been said that Aries never learn anything and, Having burned themselves on a hot stove, they are always ready to touch it again. But not necessarily the same. This must be remembered.
Back to criticism. In truth, a Virgo man can always convince his lady that his remarks in no way diminish her love for her, but she still will not be happy if she decides that the list of her shortcomings is longer than the list of talents and virtues. If he wants to maintain a good relationship with this woman, he will learn to appreciate her taste and cleanliness and try not to pay attention to the little things. In the end, he can clean the pipe under the sink or tidy up in the closet himself. Or a housekeeper.
The combination of Aries and Virgo signs refers to the oscillation model of Solar signs of type 6-8. Among other things, this means that they will be devoted to each other and, as a rule, they are connected by a common cause. It also indicates their mutual compelling sex appeal. The Aries woman personifies his sexual secret in the eyes of the Virgo man. He offers her a type of sexual relationship that she can trust. Thus, despite the fundamental differences in their characters, these two can enjoy the rare compatibility of physical desire and its expression. Perhaps the reason lies in the inherent innocence and purity of intentions that the symbolic Child and the symbolic Virgin bring to their lovemaking. Or the secret may lie in their mutual belief that that sexual union is an extreme expression of the deepest desires of men and women, the unity of their bodies, minds and souls. The directness of this woman, the simplicity of her approach to intimacy, to which the innate honesty of the Virgo man, his unselfish attention to her needs, and the fact that his hidden passion can only be awakened with someone who, like him, is important, are important raise physical love to a level higher than casual communication or brief pleasure.
Whatever the reasons, their surprisingly harmonious sexual relationships usually help them tolerate differences and tensions in other areas and other activities. Sex for them is a revival of hope and a new dedication to each other.
The Aries girl must realize that her beloved Virgo is ruled by both the favorable Mercury, and his real, but not yet open ruler, Volcano, and therefore he carefully thinks and analyzes everything. If, in moments of deep thought, she accuses him of neglecting her, he will not understand and may even become angry. His detachment and ability to become depressed for a long time will cause her indignation, and everything can end in a very unpleasant scene.
The only way to avoid this is to pretend that she does not notice his gloom and sorrow. Aries woman will have to make a conscious effort to stay cheerful, fully curb her own resentment and focus entirely on him, not on herself. It would be nice to invite him to do something pleasant together, to talk about bright plans for the future. But only calmly and slowly. When he is preoccupied with something, he does not need chatter and will not tell her that he is worried. He needs to know that she is here, somewhere nearby, singing or purring, calmly doing her business in the background. This gives him confidence.
Even if he, it would seem, does not hear her at all and does not pay attention to soft persuasion, this will gradually pass if she does not put pressure on him. It is enough to make any proposal once. If he does not respond, it is better to wait a bit. No need to slow him down again, to question and even more so pour bitter tears, desperately pitying himself, so miserable and rejected. Pitying herself is the worst thing an Aries woman can do when her Virgo man temporarily moves away from her. Patience, gentleness, tenderness, simple presence – and nothing more if she wants the light in his eyes to light up again.
She must stop looking for flaws in him. (Aries are excellent imitators, and after a while she, without noticing it, will begin to criticize everything and everyone). It is better to think about its merits. This man is unlikely to limit her freedom and interfere in her affairs. Wisely of him. Because she will act in her own way anyway, and all attempts to indicate how she should behave, where to go and what time to return will cause her only strong indignation. But, no doubt, the sharp taunts that a Virgo man is capable of can sometimes hurt her deeply.
The ability to gently persuade and be gentle is not easy for a Virgo man, and perhaps he will have to carefully study this if he wants to hold on to the Aries woman, because tangible expressions of devotion (small touching trifles: bring a handbag, kiss on the cheek, significantly wink through the whole room, unexpectedly shaking hands) deeply she needed. If there is no such constant affirmation of love in their relationship, its militancy and challenge will grow as fast as emotional hunger.
Aries woman loves society, she is emotional and convincing. She is worried and offended when her beloved Virgo man makes it clear from time to time that he would like to do something without her. But he needs to be alone more often than most other men, otherwise the irritability and nervousness of the sign of Virgo can interfere with him. Although the Aries woman will not be easy to understand such a need for privacy, she should reassure herself with the thought that this man, even while away from her, is unlikely to pay attention to another woman. Like Aries, Virgo usually fall in love forever. Yes, I know, eternal love is so rare that it cannot be called a miracle. But if you very much wait for a miracle, it will certainly happen.