The Aquarius girl is mistaken if she believes that her affection will make the Cancer man forget about the house and mother. Aquarius reasonably believes that what happened yesterday is no longer important today and that it is time to be mature enough to understand that everything is important in the future, and not an emotional attachment to what has passed and will never return. She can even go so far as to say to him: “Grow up!” Aquarians do not differ in tact and in this they are very similar to Sagittarius. Her attempts to mature Crab’s views on life will only offend him. He can snarl, climb into a cozy hollow of the tree of his memory and hide there from the thunderous realism of Uranus. Yes, that is scary. It makes him feel very, very lonely if the woman he loves doesn’t see, how much he needs these nostalgic returns to those calm and safe days of childhood, when he was so upset by the rudeness of the world or the indifference of friends and comrades. In fact, he never wanted to become an adult. Like Gemini, a Cancer man secretly wants to remain a child. When he was a boy, there were so many miracles with which he could be amazed … so many things that made him cry and laugh! And he enjoys going off again on this fantastic journey … “How boring she is!” He tells himself. “She has no imagination. She thinks and speaks like a man. And acts like a man.” But he does not need a masculine realist! He dreams of a sweet, pretty, perfect creature, gentle and affectionate, like a mother. Of course, he is wrong: the word “boring” is least suitable for this girl. It’s just that Crab’s favorite word (after “cruel”), and how else can he name a woman who does not want to cry and laugh with him, who refuses to adapt to all his moods? As I said in other chapters on Aquarius, people ruled by Uranus have a strange habit of crying when they are happy and laughing when their heart is broken. It will take Cancer some time to realize this, not to mention the fact that it’s hard for him to understand how to keep up with the change of her mood – from a tomboy girl to a princess, from a relaxed and listless to lively and sharp. Sharing him, indeed! He himself is easily amenable to mood swings, but with this woman he will be forced to swallow his own pill. Her whims and fantasies are even more unpredictable than his own. They stand each other, be sure.
The Aquarius woman does not need sympathy, but she is not heartless, and she does have feelings, however, sometimes she forgets to preserve them for personal relationships. When she realizes that she is hurting her beloved Cancer, she does everything possible to make amends and show how she really cares about him. The problem is what methods she chooses to demonstrate devotion to her friend (and her friends are everything, including her lover or husband). She is able to come up with something that poor Cancer will have to bring, and a feeling due to a nervous shock. But she is trying! Can he at least believe that she is trying? Of course, he can, he just needs to realize that she has non-standard thinking. Therefore, he, perhaps, trusting her in something else, will not dare to the general bank account.
A typical way of Aquarius to handle a checkbook is to endlessly juggle with numbers, and keeping track of it is impossible. Cancer is scary. Crabs are almost neurotically fussy when it comes to something related to cash: expenses or income, income or expenses. But if he is so fussy about everything about money, what right does he have the right to call it fussy? It is good that they both have a sense of humor that can always save the situation, but it is better not to sort things out during some phases of the moon and the reverse movement of Uranus.
She used to think sex was pretty funny. After she became a woman, she thought it was fun. And she still believes that this is a rather strange way in which a man and a woman express their need for each other. One day, she will be surprised at herself, sharing a universal point of view on earthly love between a man and a woman, and she will learn to take full pleasure from it, especially with her gentle Crab. This man and this woman will feel a quiet vague call from each other, and both of them are able to come to freedom from prejudice and conventions. This flickering link between them often flashes with a brilliant brilliance of ecstasy and passion, and their proximity can be driven by their imagination. Gradually, he will find that she does not just understand his deep and passionate desires, but she may be one of those very few people who are able to see what is under the crab’s shell, under his mask of well-being and seriousness – his dreamy, subtle soul. He himself will be surprised at his discovery. She is full of surprises and is even able to discover the unexpected in him, and yet he hates the monotony and monotony as much as she does. Its tradition and refined, often old-fashioned manners will not fool her for a second. They are both natural, and they have a subconscious sense of nature – maybe that is why their sexual union can be as calming as a summer night breeze. but he hates the monotony and monotony as much as she does. Its tradition and refined, often old-fashioned manners will not fool her for a second. They are both natural, and they have a subconscious sense of nature – maybe that is why their sexual union can be as calming as a summer night breeze. but he hates the monotony and monotony as much as she does. Its tradition and refined, often old-fashioned manners will not fool her for a second. They are both natural, and they have a subconscious sense of nature – maybe that is why their sexual union can be as calming as a summer night breeze.
Explosions happen in their relations, and this cannot be explained without the concepts of “cardinal” and “permanent”. He will insist on his “primacy”, no matter how soft his behavior and no matter how kindly he covers it. She is “permanent” and will categorically refuse to be led by her. As long as she is allowed to go on her own winding and winding path, she is cheerful and careless. But every time he tries to change her direction or show her the way, she becomes stubborn and pretends that this does not apply to her, or explodes. Her sudden uranic outbursts of rage pass quickly if she is given the opportunity to heal an offended soul alone and not to find fault with her anymore. But if he continues to curb her freedom, he will receive even greater recklessness in response. There is no point in trying to enclose her “airy” essence in a certain form, and the sooner he understands this, the better for both. She needs to remember that, no matter how good the promises of the new, he always needs to look back at the good that was yesterday, because it is so familiar and reliable! She does not need to relate to his secrets and secrets, and her lightnings of Uranus must be completely tame while he dreams or dreams.