The Aquarius girl is not easy to shock or alarm and even harder to surprise. Shock, anxiety and surprise are usually her weapons. This woman loves to keep her man in constant tension with various buffoonery. For example, appear in front of him in contact lenses with a brown tint and affectionately ask: “Darling, why did you actually get that I have blue eyes?” Call him at lunchtime and leave a happy message: “I got bored of hanging around the house, so I decided to fly to Mexico and go surfing. You could catch a plane after work and join me.” Use his hair brush to comb the silk fringe of his oriental rug or maybe wake him up in the middle of the night with the sound of a male sensual voice right above his ear.
Rule Number One. Do not let this girl get bored. And in order to get bored, she needs quite a bit.
Of course, Pisces, although they do not have the habit of shocking people themselves, it is almost as difficult to surprise as her, so perhaps her antics will not affect him as much as, for example, on the Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn man . Pisces understand human nature with all its quirks. This is part of their attitude. They generally resign themselves to the fact of their birth in the world of misunderstandings, which includes not only Aquarius, but the entire population of the planet. Neptune-controlled are unusually tolerant of weird behaviors. All Pisces men have the features of a priest confessor or a contemplative monk. And also somewhere in the depths they hide the ability to abstract reasoning and … a playful dolphin. They can be real geniuses in mathematics and mechanics, but they just like to walk in the rain and collect yellow daffodils, sleep in the air and watch the stars of the Milky Way wink at Regula on a summer night, and … weave wreaths of dandelions. It seems to me, if you think it over carefully, the Pisces man is unlikely to let the Aquarius girl get bored.
Most male Pisces, if we exclude some rare whims (always for a good reason), are generally caring and helpful people with a rather timid, gentle and friendly character. The Pisces man usually gives his family or the woman he loves everything he has. Of course, if he belongs to a certain type of Pisces, then materially he can give almost nothing. Firstly, others could already manage to take almost everything from him permanently or in debt. Secondly, he is inclined to delay everything, putting off his dreams for tomorrow, which can stretch for whole years. Pisces often refuse to face the harsh, stringent demands that life makes on those who are trying to achieve tangible, earthly, material success.
If he belongs to the opposite type of Pisces, then he is endowed with sufficient talents and knowledge to achieve both recognition and financial benefits in almost any business that he wishes to undertake. He will enjoy all the pleasures of life and will be perfectly adapted to persistently achieve the material conditions necessary for their receipt. Astrology calls such Pisces Whales. They are just as soft, playful, sensitive and friendly, but have much greater strength and aggressive pressure than Neptunian dreamers. But no matter what representative of Pisces the Aquarius girl loves, she will not calculate the cost of what he gives to her, because he also willingly gives her something intangible: her thoughts and dreams, ideas and ideals, visions and feelings, her vulnerable heart . For the Aquarius woman, whose flair is usually tuned to everything true and present, all this costs much more than a music center, Haviland porcelain, carports, expensive gifts and household trinkets. Unless she was born with a more materialistically oriented Lunar sign or Ascendant, a typical Aquarius woman is able to distinguish between the genuine and the fake without any effort. She understands that the intangible is often what is genuine. The Pisces man who loves her must always be prepared for all sorts of surprises. Unconventional behavior, even if only a little bit unconventional, is its natural form in which it was born. Unless she was born with a more materialistically oriented Lunar sign or Ascendant, a typical Aquarius woman is able to distinguish between the genuine and the fake without any effort. She understands that the intangible is often what is genuine. The Pisces man who loves her must always be prepared for all sorts of surprises. Unconventional behavior, even if only a little bit unconventional, is its natural form in which it was born. Unless she was born with a more materialistically oriented Lunar sign or Ascendant, a typical Aquarius woman is able to distinguish between the genuine and the fake without any effort. She understands that the intangible is often what is genuine. The Pisces man who loves her must always be prepared for all sorts of surprises. Unconventional behavior, even if only a little bit unconventional, is its natural form in which it was born.
Aquarius women can be surprisingly practical in everyday affairs (some of them are brilliant mathematicians and can add whole columns of numbers in the mind). Nevertheless, they are in some ways not necessarily the same as everyone else. If you meet a sweet, quiet, conservative cashier girl at a bank that was born in February, don’t make up your mind about her until you ask some delicate questions to her colleagues, husband or relatives. You are likely to be shocked. It is likely that she can ride a tractor to work on snowy days, carry breakfast in a sports bag, wear snowshoes, check (as a hobby) Russian train schedules to find out how often their trains are late, write a telegraphic transfer with a real old goose quill and etc.
The natural kindness of the Aquarius girl and her love for people shows in everything that she does and says. However, her love for people does not prevent her from being completely indifferent to what people think about her. Her lover or husband Pisces will have more than one reason to blush because of her unwillingness to live as usual. It’s not that she could do something really terrible, but she can easily put a cage with chickens at the front door, sing the Inca ancient spells at night in the courtyard or turn on the electric lawnmower at five in the morning. Isn’t it, neighbors may not understand?
The Aquarius woman and the Pisces man relate equally to promises. They do not trust them and do not like to give them – neither to each other, nor to anyone else. Pisces can sometimes break their own rule and promise something, but this does not mean that they will keep their word. The Aquarius woman will immediately tell you that she does not want to make promises, because maybe she will have to break them. This is a unique form of Uranian honesty. No one should make promises and swear, Aquarius believes, for the very reasonable reason that no one can predict with certainty what will happen. Promises are for those who like to deceive themselves and others, imagining that they completely control their own feelings.
The first thing that a woman controlled by Uranus will most likely do when she falls in love with the Pisces man will tell him about all her difficulties, state ideas, thoughts, and theories, and see what he thinks about them. She will not use it as a shoulder on which to cry, or as a test bench for her projects. Oddly enough, she listens to many of his advice. But in some matters she will certainly go her own way, despite his wise prompts. And when she stumbles, he gently lifts her and comforts her. She searches for his hand and always finds. Even for the unpredictable Aquarius woman, this is a very pleasant, cozy feeling.
True, sometimes it may not be in place. It can suddenly disappear, or maybe not suddenly, but gradually. As a rule, Pisces are emotionally reliable. He can endure a lot before his patience runs out. But when he can no longer tolerate resentment and pain, in whatever form they may be expressed, he will rather quietly sail away.
The Aquarius woman is also able to disappear, only her departure will be similar to the trick of a magician: you just saw her – and now she is gone. It turns into a memory, like multi-colored silk scarves and fluffy white rabbits of the illusionist. Like the Pisces man, her patience is not unlimited.
The sexual relationship between Pisces and Aquarius is often more like an experiment than feelings — at least at first. Both are slightly unsure of the wisdom of completely subordinating themselves to another. The bodies are not so important. These lovers will do all the usual movements for making love, but they will not be sure that this is complete proximity until the spirit catches up with the desires and demands of the flesh. When this happens, the physical fulfillment of their love will be for him the fulfillment of a long-cherished dream, for her – another of the delightful joys of life. Not the only, but special, magical. Because in fact, she loves life itself with all its various surprises too much to put all her hopes in only one of her miracles. Nevertheless, these two can find more poetry in the naturalness of their physical affinity than most couples can simply imagine.
But before this woman finally connects herself with the person whom she loves, he must prove to her that he is her friend, a true friend, that he wants not only to possess her heart and body, but also wants intellectual closeness. The slightest hint of infidelity in friendship – and it will become cold, like the first winter frost. Friendship for Aquarius is above all, love – then, and only in third place – sex. This does not mean that she is not passionate. It all depends on your definition of passion. Intellectual kinship, intellectual intimacy, if you like, always makes passion deeper and more versatile. People ruled by Uranus feel this truth long before others recognize it.
The biggest weakness of the Pisces man is his ability to neglect his personal well-being and not pay attention to his own needs because of the tendency to give his time and money to those who need his help. But for his Aquarius woman, self-sacrifice is not a weakness. This is a force without which a man is not a real man, much less a friend.
The biggest flaw in the character of the Aquarius woman is her refusal to adapt, her thirst for change and her passion for adventure. But for her Pisces man, disdain for conventions is not a flaw. This is what primarily made him fall in love with her, because it is so much like himself. Together, going a little crazy is what their magic comes from.
Yes, they will argue, even often. But how unusual are the disputes between a man and a woman who love each other! All quarrels, no matter how violent they may be, end in a passionate embrace. And after her Uranian puzzle games run out, after his Neptunian evasion disappears, ultimately only love matters.