A romantic obsession with a male Taurus will certainly be an instructive experience for a female Aries. She believes that stationary obstacles can simply be thrown aside, jump over them or sweep away the all-conquering force of the Mars fire. But not in this case.
She pushes him, and he sits. She drags, and he rests. She demands, and he goes into himself. Then, however, he carefully looks out. To maintain a relationship, you have to part for a while. But things can be different. If she smiles, he will soften, she will flatter herself – he will open her arms, she will hug him – he will shine. It is easy to see that in this pair it is she who always takes the first step. In any direction.
They may quarrel over money (its extravagance, its economy) or face horns due to the thirst for new sensations inherent in Aries, and the craving for peace and tranquility characteristic of Taurus. But, having made some effort and having adapted to each other, these two can achieve a rare complete understanding.
Since she needs unlimited freedom, the best thing is if the Bull is not very jealous. True, the feeling of ownership in it is very developed.
The Taurus man is stubborn; no one denies this. His sometimes blind and reckless ability to push his horns against a wall will show himself in all its glory if the Aries girl pulls him to pick daisies with her when he wants to take a nap, or wants to introduce him to his friends when he was going to read quietly (another time he will happy to entertain them with his wonderful humor), or demand that he spend more than he earns. Nevertheless, the Bull, whom they love, can endure a lot. Calmly and evenly, he will relate to her encounters with his boss or relatives, to howls of toothache. He doesn’t even scold her when she loses her engagement ring, dropped it in mashed potatoes in the restaurant, and discovers the loss after they leave, the restaurant closes and the ring will not be returned.
Calm Taurus will patiently endure most of the not always attractive outbursts of Aries enthusiasm, unless he is pressed too hard and too often. Otherwise, his anger cannot be avoided. Sheep, who do not know what an angry Bull is, should not test his patience. This is perhaps the most serious astrological warning, which should not be treated with irony.
If he is treated kindly, sympathetically with his feelings, this man will calmly survive the darkest days with the Baran woman whom he loves, supporting her in the misfortune generated by her own mistakes, surrounding her with warmth and care, giving her unconditional devotion. She will rest in his strong arms, as if in the evening by the fireplace after long wanderings in the cold and wet streets. Not fully understanding her emotional injuries, he will always take care of her, provide him with a reliable bank account and a leaked roof, not to mention a full refrigerator, trying his best, slowly, probably laying the foundation for a more reliable and even luxurious future.
The Aries woman will bring ideas and energy to their union, the Taurus man will bring stability and security. This applies equally to the financial and sexual aspects of their risk-free relationships.
Although Taurus is as practical in love as in everything else, they are deeply impressionable, romantic, and sentimental. Aries woman, who mistakenly believes that her usually non-ardent lover or husband Taurus does not love her, will periodically be surprised to receive unexpected signs of attention, eloquently and touchingly speaking about the timid feelings of Taurus.
Nevertheless, they may encounter difficulties regarding the physiological side of love, after the first magnetic attraction of the positive male pole and the negative female one loses its novelty. Sex for an Aries woman is a form of mental, emotional, physical and spiritual discharge. For her, sexual activity justifies itself as a reverent fantasy, which is capable, in some miraculous way, known only to her, of turning any dream into reality. For a male Taurus, sex is a normal and natural function aimed at achieving quite tangible results: satisfaction, erotic needs of the flesh and the birth of children.
Aries woman is forced to release the sexual energy of Mars, even if she fails to achieve much, and imaginary romance is very important for her. The Taurus man does not see much point in giving energy output, if he does not expect to receive any practical benefit: the typical Taurus does not like to dream. Therefore, Aries can gradually grow cold to not romantic love with Taurus, and he (of course, not so fast) will begin to be openly amazed at the flights to the stars, which seem to her the embodiment of passion, deep down thinking with anguish that he would be able to deliver her to the stars but for this you need to solve, there are so many specific tasks, but he doesn’t even have a map … A harmonious combination of their Solar, Lunar signs and Ascendants will magically erase the differences between their natures and allow achieving deep satisfaction in sex,
However, if there is a known tension between their luminaries and the Ascendants, it will be difficult for the Aries woman to keep the Bull in her pasture, unless she makes a lot of efforts to constantly give him pleasure, which, however, is completely unnatural for a typical Aries egoist. Taurus’s need to leave the woman he once fell in love causes enormous pain and frustration (to leave or let her get out of his control), but if he decided to leave, he leaves forever. There are no exceptions to this rule. A little tenderness today can prevent a sea of tears tomorrow.
Despite many disputes, they completely agree on one thing: they need to clearly know everything about general and personal finances. Therefore, the attitude of the male Taurus to money, which is so very different from her own, will soon cease to be a secret for her. At first, she decides that he is a rare miser, and he will consider that she is a spender, like all women (Taurus is sure that they are all made more or less from one test). Gradually, however, the generous Bull will realize that her carefree attitude to money is almost always explained by emotional outbursts. Although she will spend a lot of money on herself (Aries are the first astrological house and therefore are extremely concerned about her appearance), her desire to give will entail much greater expenses, almost in the same way as children give: with delight at the opportunity to please others and the joy of their happy smiles. He is likely to change his attitude towards her rampant and carefree spending, and when their connection grows stronger, her impulsive generosity may even increase his love for her.
Aries woman will also gradually realize that he is not as mercantile as she thought at the beginning, and that his frugality stems from his highly developed need to be confident in the future, from the deep-seated fear in him that he suddenly find himself on the street and depend on whose in charity. She will also understand that the natural nobility of her stubborn, but kind, unshakable and law-abiding Bull consists in the desire to be sure that their future is reasonably secure. The ability to give gifts to friends and relatives and lend money to those who need them, not rushing to repay the debt, will tickle his pride as well as her. However, the Bull must be sure that he has an untouchable supply for a rainy day. A typical Taurus man will not greatly risk his well-being. If an Aries woman tries to convince him that they should move to a more comfortable apartment or house, entrust someone with their money in the hope of future dividends, commissions or bonuses, play on the difference between rent and mortgage payments, she is doomed to scandals, which will end in nothing. The bull will not move an inch until he is sure that the burden is on his shoulder. Taurus never believes in promises. They are only words for him. And what can be created from words? But if Taurus did decide to act, he generously shares with those who need it, especially if you are talking to his family, friends or the woman he loves. which will end in nothing. The bull will not move an inch until he is sure that the burden is on his shoulder. Taurus never believes in promises. They are only words for him. And what can be created from words? But if Taurus did decide to act, he generously shares with those who need it, especially if you are talking to his family, friends or the woman he loves. which will end in nothing. The bull will not move an inch until he is sure that the burden is on his shoulder. Taurus never believes in promises. They are only words for him. And what can be created from words? But if Taurus did decide to act, he generously shares with those who need it, especially if you are talking to his family, friends or the woman he loves.
Sometimes the stubbornness of the Bull seems to the Aries girl a manifestation of real cruelty. For example, he can tell her something evil at all if she touches him too much. Of course, she would immediately try to make him openly ask for forgiveness, or at least admit that he did not want to do this (of which she was already so sure), but, naturally, she would not achieve anything. Attempts to insist and even demand this by stamping his foot will only lead to the fact that he will finally become locked in himself and no words can be pulled out of him. A classic quarrel erupts.
The girl, sobbing with anger, suddenly runs out into the night street. “He is the coldest and cruelest man I have ever known! Between us it’s all over!” Having run through several houses (it all depends on the amount of adrenaline that has developed in her blood when she, like a fury, rushed to run), she will see a cafe, stop and go into it to be alone with herself, irrigating tears of donuts and cursing her lover … until their favorite song flows from the speakers, which will remind her of such a recent happy past. Then she will pay the bill, hurry out and stop at the corner of the street, miserable and lonely. Then, trying to catch a taxi to get home, she finally realizes her guilt and is already truly scared. Late, there is no taxi, and she will walk along unusually quiet and deserted streets, pondering the events of the evening. But who is it standing there, on the corner, patiently waiting for her? It’s him! Overflowing with happiness, she throws herself into his reliable embrace. After all, he did not leave and did not leave her! Everything is good again. Yes, he did not leave this time. Perhaps a similar scene will happen again. But one day his patience will burst …
If the Aries woman is wise, she will be able to protect their relationship from breaking.