Imagine that you are a huge cliff on top of a mountain. Nothing scares or excites you. You are so strong that not a single storm touched you, although the wind turned other rocks into helpless naked. One cold day, a seemingly harmless drop of water will flash on you and slide into a deep crack that you have from birth, but which has so far been avoided by rain and wind. What are you going to do?
You will not do anything. Are you afraid of a small drop? But the next day it suddenly gets colder, and a drop inside you freezes. It will hurt you. How do you now feel about a drop of water that expands inside you and threatens to split you in two?
Now imagine an earthly, vulnerable male Taurus in love with a tender “moon” Water maiden. It can shock him to the core! But already too late: she penetrated into that secret place, which no one had yet reached, in his heart. Perhaps it will not be torn in two. But he himself will never be the same as before – before the girl beckoned him, and he ran along the seashore under the midnight moon along the zigzags of the crab trace, screaming, laughing and … feeling. Taurus knows everything about intimacy, but “feeling” is a slightly different word. She will teach him all the meanings and synonyms of this word.
Another girl, Cancer, declares that she is not typical of her sign: “I do not like to cook, I do not want to have children, and I hate sitting at home.” Do not let her fool you, as she fools her head! The reason for her extremes is that she has not yet found the man whom she secretly yearns for: the one who will protect her and wrap her loyalty in a warm blanket. She can love children in her heart, love cooking and doing housework. But she is not going to stand by the stove or cradle for the sake of some abstract man. Until he materializes from her midnight dreams, she will hide her tender maternal feelings and sentimental femininity behind a desire for financial independence or a successful career. But if you listen to what is inside her, you will hear: “I am lonely, scared and sad.
Yes, come true. If you believe in them. This formula is so deceptively simple that only very few people understand its truth. Galileo once said: “Whatever you desire, pray as if you have already received it. And you will have it.” It really is. If you really want this, “this is no longer a dream.” And when your dream comes true, it depends entirely on the strength of your imagination. However, the Cancer girl is not inclined to pray for something “as if she had already received it,” but as if Fate had no intention to give it to her. Therefore, it is not a matter of Fate, but of its own vacillations. Constancy is what the “moon” damsel lacks so much.
Taurus man falls in love slowly to love for a long time. He does not give up until finally that real woman appears. He will spend a lot of time making a decision, but his surrender will be instantaneous, and fidelity will be eternal, unless, of course, she spoils everything …
Most Taurus do not feel love in all its physical and mental fullness for up to twenty years, and sometimes even later, while their friends have long opened an account for love affairs and even marriages. But do not forget that the Bull has the exceptional ability to catch up, and the depth and strength of his love are worth the wait. The same applies to the Crab girl: she, too, slowly grabs hold of something and lets go even slower. Even if it is “something” – an old shawl or a broken umbrella, a cracked mirror or a pink ribbon from her baby cap, last year’s receipts or former lovers.
Taurus is jealous of love – that is, thoroughly, reasonably and practically, and not with jealousy, as you might think, and it can be unstable moody or overly enthusiastic, but it does not bother anyone.
The “moon” girl can allow herself both baseless jealousy, turning into depression, and suspicion, and this can lead the Bull into a rage. In principle, he is not opposed to being a little jealous. He can even enjoy it. But suspicion is already superfluous! She has a vivid imagination: her fears, based more on fantasies than on facts, can cause tears and a light fit of hysteria. Does it scare you? In reality, everything is not so hopeless. Not many combinations of zodiac signs have such chances of success as Taurus and Cancer.
Taurus, thanks to the harmonious and peaceful Venus, is more disposed to calmly perceive their relationship. The Cancer Woman submits to the Moon, which reflects light, and she herself instinctively reflects the mood that is created around her. Any change in her immediate environment is reflected, as in a mirror, in her thoughts and feelings. Sometimes all these reflections create an eclipse in itself. It is not easy for her to understand herself, although she has an unmistakable intuition in everything regarding the feelings and thoughts of others. Many people trust her secrets to her and are rewarded for this with cordial participation and wise advice. But her own secrets are almost impossible to find out. The bull can tell her:
– “I don’t understand you. You say that you love me, but you spend all your time in hustle and bustle. Children, purchases, charity packages … You need to go to the bank, then you have a parental committee … You’ll even sit alone and look at the moon … you don’t need me. I just exist somewhere nearby. ” Now, perhaps, she will understand that he is offended: he does not receive the attention he needs, the touches and kisses that he is waiting for – all that would make him feel that he is dearly loved. However, due to the fact that he lacks her “lunar” sensitivity, he may not understand how much she needs all her activities and the world of her dreams. She needs to reflect back everything that she takes from life.
From this it should be obvious who should make the first movement towards a truce – the one who better understands the other. And that, of course, is hers.
However, too straightforward Bull her attempts may seem insincere and somehow vague. And she should just come up and say: “I need you, and I can’t live without you, and the reason I’m busting about is because …”, etc., etc. Then she should just prove it with your earthly love. This is the only language that the Taurus man understands. Plain. Modest. Honest. Landed. And sensual. The bull does not like to be teased! But the Bull likes to be teased …
Usually they have excellent sexual compatibility, apart from those cases when their birth cards are poorly “aligned”. True, she sometimes wants him to be a little more tactful with his romantic jokes and a little more delicate in oral expressions of passion. But in general, Taurus is tactful and delicate. And he can lure the Cancer girl out of the shell – a promise of the fulfillment of such desires, which most women read about only in novels! The bull will give the “moon” girl the confidence that she is dearly loved and that he has power over her (deep down she really expects this).
The Taurus man surrounds the Cancer woman with love sufficient to drive away all her fears – even those that she had “saved up” since childhood. He wants her, and he needs her!
True love is hard to resist, moreover, it is offered with such sincerity that only Taurus is capable of. In response, the Cancer woman will adore him madly (especially during the full moon) and may never leave him. Unless, of course, he quarrels with her whole family or does not allow himself to say something wrong to her mother. Then he can lose her for a while. She will not return to her Taurus when the moon changes (provided that he apologizes). Reconciliation may not occur if she does not forgive him before he asks for forgiveness (after all, he does not ask forgiveness!)
She is so sensitive … Or maybe unstable? He is so patient … Or maybe stubborn? What is true? It all depends on how you look at it. While there are blinkers on Taurus, he does not see reality. While Cancer looks in his “moon” mirror, the truth is sometimes distorted, his emotions change unpredictably. The relationship of these two is full of fog, but you can always find a way to each other through this fog, if you reflect on the ancient wisdom: “Seek the truth, and you will find yourself.” And what is truth? Love. Selfless and all-forgiving love. True love.